Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahe Wa Barakatuhu.
As The Topic Is the Partner of the Life, Very Naturally It Has Become Necessary Here to Focus A Little On It.
Surely, Our Life Is Only Once in the Earth and for A Very Limited Short Period of Time of Many Important and Special Assignments & Liabilities and Much More Achievements, Delight, Pleasures & Enjoyments than the Duties & Works. As to Perform & Gain the All Above, Life Need A Suitable Partner – A Closest, Dearest & Nearest Fulltime Companion Till the Last Breath, Is Also One of the Most Gracious Gifts of Allah for the Man In the Earth. So, Each Moments of the Life Is Much Costly and A Suitable Partner of the Same Here too Is An Unavoidable Essential Human Natural Holy Desire, Whose Have No Alternative or Substitute Is Also Highly Precious for Us.
Getting Married Once or Onemore or Again & Again On Need of Legal Grounds Is Definitely Not A Crime, Fault or Offense, Nor A Matter of Disgrace, Dishonor, Infamy, Shame and Guilty Feelings. So, As None of Us Are Beyond This Universal Desire, System, Structure & the Truths of Life the Genius, Learned, Pious, Prudent & Wise Never Ignore, Miss or Misuse Even A Little Bliss of the Gifts, Graces and Amenities. It’s Life, A Time Comes When All Opportunities Would End. So, We Should Be Cautious & Prudent to Realize the Realities and Memorize, Sometimes Some Truths May Appear As Extreme Bitter. If Unfortunately, There’s Really Any Mistake, Loss, Penalties or the Time Become So Critical to Make A Person Helpless, Harassed & Puzzled While the Parents, Family, Relatives, Neighbors or Friends Nobody Can Help, Would Bear or Share A Little of the Pains or Pay the Brutal or Drastic Costs of the Same Even Blame Because It’s Beyond the Rule of Possibility. So, Please Get Married Soon, Not Me But Anybody the Person Whom You Prefer, Is Your Freedom of Choice & Select, Right and Responsibility.
If the Above Dictums Are True Why There’s Everywhere We Find A Funny & Foolish Game of Hide & Seek and the Top Secrecy of Covering the Matter Like As A Great Crime of Disgrace or Shame with A Metallic Lid. As We Are In the Pains of the Loneliness and While Gathering In A Same Platform to Find, Seek and Get A Suitable Partner and A Happy & Peaceful Life Again Must Expose & Express Us Well. But Why Somebody Is Arrogant or Rough & Rude or Impolite, Impatient or Imprudent Here and Some Are In the Curious Pecularity of the Unknown Reasons of Delusion of Fantasy Upon Which the Extreme Delay of Hesitations and Thus Killing the Precious Times Really for Nothing, In Assorting or Choosing & Selecting A Good Partner of the Right Person Is Not So Difficult, Are Perhaps the Alarming Sign & Symptom of Another Defeat & Failure Ahead. The Arrogance & Fascination Are Always Self Destructive Behaviors of Collapse or Disaster. Further, If Everything of the Marital Process Is So Confidential or Private or Conservative & Complicated Instead of Liberal or Moderate Mentality, How We to Proceed to the Purpose of Know & View Each Others for Choice and Selection of A Fine & Final Pleasing Conclusion At A Sooner Date.
Those Who Are A Little Hopeless, Discouraged, Dispirited or Derailed & Upset Please Learn More, Be On Constant Reading & Learning – the First Order of ALLAH for the Man In the Earth, to Become Genius, Confident, Pious & Prudent i.e. Would Open the Invisible 3rd. Eye and the Doors & Windows of the Dark House Inside You, All Are Now Closed. Really There Is No Alternative of Knowing & Learning Without Reading, So More to Know & Learn We Must Be On & Go On A Thorough Reading. Surely The Peace, Success & Happiness Are Not There, Where You Moving Around Anxiously Like A Blind. Life Is Not A Dreamland of the Immaginations, Life Is A Training Center of Struggles & Pains. Life Is Truly Alive & Pleasant In the Realities Whatever Those Are Sweet or Bitter. So, Please Bye A Little Mirror Now Where to See You In the Others Eyes & Fix Inside First to Make You Fit By Finding & Removing the Small Defects, Demerits, Drawbacks & the Shortfalls, If Any. Then the Reasonablity of Your Demands, Expectations and Seekings Would Ensure the Possibilities of Getting Those What You Need. However, The Compromise, Realization, Sacrifice, Tollerance & Negotiation Are the Secrets of Catching the Golden Deer of the SHUKH, Differs Person to Person. My Observations, Feelings and Findings Inspired Me to Write Something About the Life & Lifepartner. So, Noting Here of the Little Tips of the Gains & Happiness As I Know, Learned and Think Are Unimportant, Although I’m Pleading Pardon to Them Who Become Annoyed Reading It. Wishing A Happy, Smooth, Pious & Simple Life for All Who Are Even In A Little Pain or Bearing An Insipid Life of No Partners Like Me or Many Innocent Others.
However, Most Welcome to the Grand Lady’s Possess A Superior G&T Feelings, Thinking & Judgments, the Capability of Finding A Goodman’s Distinctions and the Pleasant Mentality of A Little Honor & Letoff for That Candidate, to A Surprising New Life In the Different Unknown World Inside A Little Known of Our Immense World Only Who Are In the Desire & Thirst of A Simple Man of No M&P Sickness or Bad Habits But Fullof Excellence, Goodness, Proficiency, Elegance & Stamina Nothing Fake for the Sake of Getting Free of Costs Such A Partner’s Precious Love & the Perfect Peace of the Paradise In A Cottage Is Really Costly & Rare. Somebody May Consider the Piece of Article As A Thesis While Somebody Ignore and Not Reading with Attention & Importance, Is No Loss for the Others. If Anybody Become Annoyed and Feel Boring or Tedious or Do Not Understands At All, Be Sure Your Heart or Soul Has Become Heavily Rusted, Need A Thorough Vleaning Treatment of Occurring No Costs But Need Only A Strong Wish & Determination for the Purfication.
Though I’m In Suffering Loneliness Not Anxious At All About My Marriage. But Really Worried About the Fall & Failure of the Social Customs and Structure Is In the Total Risks of It’s Cancer i.e. the Association of the Free Mixing Culture of Most of the Young (19–39) Generations of Both Literate or Iliterate Girls & Boys Have Many Oversmart Like Minded Friends Staying the Major Portion of the Days, Somebody Remain Outside Even Upto 8/9 PM, Where They Going & What Are Doing Nobody Knows While Staying At Close Intimacy Together, Their Delaying Marriage or No Interests of Marriage Even Upto 40 or More, Well Acquaintance About the Western Culture of Free Sex, Live Together ETC. Are Now At Home, the Sexual Materials too Available Everywhere At A Cheaper Costs Which Perhaps Affected Some Elderly Persons too Who Are Partnerless, Is Now Open Secret to The Young or Older, Parents, Society and the Social Leaders All.
However, As Thinking, Telling & Doing Even Something A Little for the Wellbeing of the Others Is A Great Virtue So, I Have Been Committed to Engage Myself for A Little Contribution of Paying Earnest Services of the Benefits, Goodness & Welfare to Divert & Guide By Getting Them Married Soon & Thus Towards the Heaven.
May Allah Please Be Merciful Enough to Help All and Save from the Dreadful Hell and It’s Adversities.
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